Let me start with some background. I'm 41 years old, married, with kids, and my work stress is generally quite high. Over the past two years, I've noticeably felt less stable than before. Occasionally, when I get nervous, it's over in about 3 minutes. My wife doesn't say anything, but I can tell from her expression.

I've used a few topical endurance sprays before. This time, I bought "Indian God Oil Delay Spray, Non-Numbing, Men's Topical, Second Generation New Packaging GOD OIL" mainly for two reasons:

1. It's advertised as a "non-numbing" topical endurance spray. I'm afraid of those that completely kill all sensation after one spray.
2. The second-generation new packaging claims a gentler formula, suitable for long-term use.

Below, I'll lay out my experience in chronological order of actual use, and also compare it with a few competing products I've tried.

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1. First Use: From Hesitation to the Real Deal

The first time I used it was on a Saturday evening in mid-June, about an hour after dinner. I deliberately didn't drink that day.

1.1. Trial Spray and Onset Time

I took a shower first, cleaned the area, dried off, and started spraying around 8:40 PM according to the instructions:

Amount: I only sprayed twice the first time, mainly on the glans and the coronal sulcus, then gently spread it with my hand.

Waiting Time: After spraying, I checked the time. After about 5 minutes, the surface was basically dry, no stickiness, no stinging, just a slight cool sensation.

Actual Start: We started around 9:05 PM with foreplay, and actual intercourse began around 9:15 PM.

Based on my own feeling:

Before, if my condition was average, it would be over in 3-5 minutes.

This time, I estimated the whole session from start to finish was about 12 minutes, at least double my usual time.

The most obvious feeling was: the stimulation was still there, but that "about to finish" edge was pushed back, and the climax came more slowly.

1.2. First-Time Side Effects and Discomfort

After the first use, I deliberately observed for about an hour:

Penile skin: No redness or stinging, at most a slight dryness.

My wife: She said afterwards she didn't feel any burning or numbness.

My own body: No palpitations, headaches, or anything like that.

But there was one small issue:

If I didn't wait long enough after spraying, the sensitivity dropped noticeably in the first few minutes, like there was a "layer of film" covering it. It gradually recovered a bit after some activity.

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2. Using It for About a Week: Finding the Right Dosage

I have a habit of keeping small records. From mid-June to the end of the month, about two weeks, we had sex about 5 times. I used the Indian God Oil second generation for 3 of those times.

2.1. Second and Third Times: Too Much Spray Was Uncomfortable

The second time was about 3 days later. I got a bit greedy and sprayed 3 times.

Sprayed around 9 PM, massaged it in, waited about 20 minutes before starting.

This time, it lasted nearly 15 minutes, but the first half felt a bit "dull," with slow pleasure buildup. It only smoothed out in the middle and later stages.

Afterwards, my glans felt a bit dry and slightly tight, lasting for about 20 minutes.

For the third time, I still sprayed 3 times. This time, I clearly felt:

The sensitivity was suppressed too much. For the first 5 minutes, it was almost like wearing a very thick condom, and I wasn't very aroused.

The duration was longer, also around 15 minutes, but there was a moment in the middle where I felt "a bit soft," requiring concentrated effort to maintain.

From these two experiences, I summarized:

For me, 2 sprays is a comfortable dose. 3 sprays is too strong, and the experience is actually worse.

An onset time of about 20 minutes is suitable. Starting after 5 minutes feels too "rough," as the effect hasn't fully stabilized.

2.2. Average Performance Over a Week of Use

Based on the average of these 3 times:

Original: 3-5 minutes

With 2 sprays: Could consistently reach 8-12 minutes

With 3 sprays: Could reach about 15 minutes, but the process wasn't natural enough

My wife's feedback:

She clearly noticed the longer duration and more controllable rhythm.

She didn't say "no feeling at all." Her sensitivity was basically unaffected.

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3. Using It for a Month: Adaptation Period, Side Effects, and Two Drawbacks

By mid-July, I had been using it intermittently for about 5 weeks, with a total of around 9 uses.

3.1. Skin Adaptation

Around the 4th or 5th use, I started noticing two small issues:

1. Occasional mild dryness and itching
- Usually within half an hour after sex, for a few minutes, I felt a bit dry and slightly itchy.
- The next morning, it looked normal, no peeling or obvious red spots.

2. Troublesome cleaning
- Every time after sex, I would wash with clean water within about 10 minutes, afraid of residual irritation for my partner.
- If we had a second round that night, I had to re-spray, which meant showering twice in between. Honestly, it was a bit of a hassle.

So, the first obvious drawback I see:

It's not very friendly for people with cleanliness obsessions or who dislike washing. You must wash thoroughly between rounds, otherwise, you risk irritating your partner. This operational cost is not low.

3.2. Impact on Erection and Hardness

This Indian God Oil is mainly for delaying ejaculation, not a typical erection aid. But based on my month of experience:

Hardness itself didn't improve significantly, but it was maintained more stably.

When using 2 sprays, it was less likely to suddenly "go soft" in the middle and later stages.

If I was very tired that day, even with the spray, the baseline hardness was poor, and the effect was limited.

Simply put, it's more like extending your existing ability rather than magically increasing hardness.

3.3. Second Drawback: Requires Advance Planning

After a month of use, the second inconvenience I care about:

Onset time: According to the instructions and my feeling, to get a stable effect, you need to spray at least 15-20 minutes in advance.

High difficulty for spontaneity: This product isn't suitable for scenarios where the mood strikes suddenly, unless you have a premonition.

There were two times:

We were getting in the mood, but I hadn't sprayed yet. I had to excuse myself to shower and spray, a process taking at least 15 minutes. It was a bit awkward in between, and the atmosphere was disrupted.

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4. Comparison Experience with Several Competing Products

Over the past year, I've tried 3 categories of related products:

1. Other brands of topical delay sprays
2. Oral supplements (like similar to Tengsu, American-style ones)
3. Relying entirely on rhythm control and the stop-start technique, without any product

Here, I'll mainly compare a few topical endurance sprays I've actually used with the Indian God Oil second generation.

4.1. Comparison with Similar Indian God Oil Topical Products

I've used two before:

One is the classic Indian God Oil style spray (the type with "Zhanbo" in the name), currently available like this: Zhanbo Indian God Oil

The other is an imported version, like Climax Spray

Based on my actual feelings, the dimensions are roughly:

Onset Speed

- Zhanbo type: About 10 minutes after spraying, stimulation is suppressed relatively quickly.
- Climax type: Also about 10-15 minutes, with a more noticeable cool sensation initially.
- Indian God Oil Gen 2 GOD OIL: Better to reserve 15-20 minutes. The initial feeling is very mild, almost no irritation.

Duration (based on my original 3-5 minutes)

- Zhanbo type: Can extend to about 10-15 minutes, but the early stage is noticeably numb.
- Climax type: Average just over 10 minutes, relatively stable performance.
- Gen 2 GOD OIL: With 2 sprays, mostly between 8-12 minutes, occasionally reaching 15 minutes if conditions are good.

Numbness Level

- Zhanbo type: I personally find it quite numb. Almost no pleasure in the first few minutes, like wearing two thick condoms.
- Climax type: Slightly numb, but still acceptable.
- Gen 2 GOD OIL: Not "completely non-numbing," but indeed much milder than the previous two. It's "a bit dull but still has noticeable pleasure."

Impact on Partner

- Zhanbo type: Once, I didn't wash thoroughly before a second round, and my wife said it was a bit burning. I've been very cautious since then.
- Climax type: Her reaction was relatively neutral.
- Gen 2 GOD OIL: She basically reported no discomfort and didn't complain about any strange smell.

Ease of Use

- Zhanbo type: Stings and feels cool upon spraying. Suitable for spontaneous moments, but I'm more worried about side effects.
- Climax type: Somewhere in between.
- Gen 2 GOD OIL: The initial feeling is "quiet," but requires advance time.

For a more systematic comparison, you can check out a review article I referenced: Delay Spray Comparison, which breaks down the delay effect, numbness, and usage scenarios of different endurance sprays in detail.

4.2. Difference from Another Indian God Oil Series Topical Product

Before buying the Indian God Oil second generation this time, I also looked at other product introductions on the GOD OIL line, like the one focusing on "time control": Indian God Oil Spray.

From actual use:

Gen 2 GOD OIL takes a "mild + stable" approach, suppressing sensitivity less aggressively, making it more suitable for frequent use.

Some stronger time-control versions do last longer but compromise pleasure more, which I personally don't adapt to well.

Regarding safe use, I also read a guide article: Climax Safe Usage. The principles mentioned there—starting with a small dose, paying attention to cleaning, avoiding use on broken skin—are also applicable to GOD OIL.

4.3. Difference from Oral Supplements and Psychological Factors

I've also tried some oral supplements intermittently before:

Onset is generally over 30 minutes, lasting longer, but side effects (facial flushing, rapid heartbeat) were quite noticeable for me.

The advantages of topical sprays are:

- More localized, no systemic effects
- Stop using, and the effect is gone, less worry about dependence

But I have to be honest:

If you have obvious erectile dysfunction, relying solely on topical sprays is pointless. You should see a doctor.

Truly extending duration also depends on rhythm control and breathing coordination. The product just helps you "linger around the edge" a bit longer.

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5. Tips for Use: How to Spray More Comfortably

Over this month, I've figured out a comfortable routine for myself. Here it is for your reference:

1. Plan the time in advance
- Confirm roughly when you'll start, then spray about 20 minutes beforehand.
- If you're the spontaneous type, you might either spray in advance or consider other faster-acting products.

2. Start with a small dose
- For the first time, I recommend 1-2 sprays, focusing on the glans and coronal sulcus.
- Based on my feeling, 2 sprays is a stable starting point; 3 sprays is already on the heavy side.

3. Apply evenly and wait for absorption
- After spraying, gently spread it with your finger. Don't rub vigorously.
- Wait at least 5-10 minutes before putting on underwear to avoid wasting it by rubbing off.

4. Clean up afterwards
- After sex, it's best to wash with warm water within about 10-20 minutes, especially if you plan a second round that day.
- If your skin is dry, you can apply a non-irritating moisturizer.

5. Don't assume "more is better"
- After multiple trials, my feeling is: dosage isn't perfectly linear with duration. Using too much only makes the first half feel numb, reducing overall satisfaction.

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6. Advantages and Two Obvious Shortcomings of This Indian God Oil Gen 2

To summarize my subjective but real feelings after a month of use.

Advantages

1. Overall, it's quite mild
- Unlike some topical endurance sprays that burn or sting immediately upon spraying.
- For both me and my partner, there were no obvious allergies or strong discomfort.

2. Stable delay effect
- Original 3-5 minutes. With 2 sprays, most of the time it stabilizes at 8-12 minutes.
- On good days, it can reach 15 minutes, which is relatively predictable.

3. Decent preservation of pleasure
- It's not the type that completely kills sensitivity.
- The climax comes more slowly, but it's not entirely "boring."

Obvious Shortcomings

1. The usage process is a bit "ritualistic"
- Each time requires planning 20 minutes ahead: spray, wait, clean up afterwards. The whole package is a bit complex.
- For someone with kids and household chores, you don't always have that much lead time.

2. Still a risk for people with sensitive skin
- Although relatively mild, it's still a topical product. I experienced mild dryness and itching myself.
- If you have a history of eczema or balanitis, definitely test a small area first, and it's best to consult a doctor.

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7. Who It's Suitable For and Who It's Not

Based on my month of experience, I'd categorize it like this:

Suitable For

1. People who can last 3-5 minutes and want to stabilize around 10 minutes
- Not severe premature ejaculation, just want more controllable rhythm.

2. People who can't tolerate "completely numb" sprays
- Want delay but also want to retain some pleasure.

3. Married working men who occasionally need a "boost"
- High stress, fluctuating performance, want stable results on important occasions.

Not Suitable For

1. People who rely on it entirely to "cure" a problem
- If you can barely get an erection or finish in under 10 seconds, don't just rely on sprays. See a urologist first.

2. People who highly value spontaneity
- If your rhythm is "kiss and go," this lifestyle might be better suited to products that don't require lead time.

3. People with very sensitive skin or a history of inflammation
- Be very cautious. It's better to start with non-irritating lubricants and rhythm training.

4. People expecting a massive, movie-like endurance boost
- Topical endurance sprays essentially "help you hold on a bit longer." It's unlikely to go from 3 minutes to 40 minutes, and individual results vary greatly.

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8. A Final Word on Mindset

After using so many topical endurance products, my conclusion is quite simple:

Products can solve about 30-40% of your problem.

The remaining 60-70% comes down to lifestyle habits, psychological stress, and partner communication.

Now, I do several things simultaneously:

Control late nights, exercise at least twice a week for over 30 minutes each time.

Talk directly to my wife about my anxiety, let her know I'm working on it, instead of pretending everything is fine.

Sometimes, I use no product at all, just practicing rhythm with the stop-start technique and changing positions.

With this combination, the Indian God Oil Delay Spray Gen 2 is more of a "support tool" for me. It provides a bit of security on key occasions, reducing the mental pressure of "don't finish too fast," which actually helps me relax more.

If you're also considering trying a topical endurance spray, start with a low dose and low frequency. Observe your body's reactions and your partner's feelings as you go. Don't aim for extreme duration right away. This way, you're more likely to find a rhythm that truly works for both of you.